“Sangha: The Secrets of Yoga in Relationships” was like sitting in on your favorite comparative religion class in college. Graham Schweig, an associate professor of Religion and Philosophy at Christopher Newport University in Virginia, began the class with a mesmerizing chant played on a modern tamboura, that, as he correctly noted, made us “forget we [were] in the middle of Manhattan.”
The teachings were deep, exploring yogic philosophy and interpretations of texts like the Bhagavad Gita and the Yoga Sutra. Yet our small group of 15 non-scholars took hold of the material and demanded to understand practical ways to apply the teachings into daily life, and in particular, in relationship to others. And Schweig was happy to engage.
He taught that translation and interpretation of yogic texts is no small thing. The subtleties of the Sanskrit language are great, and different interpretations can yield very different meanings. Take, for example, the common definition of pranayama as “breath control.” Actually, Schweig says, means “breath expanding,” which clearly has a different connotation.
The same goes for the well-known verse of the Yoga Sutra 1.2: Yoga citta-vritta-nirodhah. This is commonly interpreted as, “Yoga is the cessation of the turning of the mind.”
Schweig presented an expanded definition of this, of yoga being “consciousness as it is uprooted [from its confined state] expanding deeply [into its pure state].” It takes a minute to absorb, but this meaning shines a whole new light on the lesson contained within.
When it comes to relationships, Schweig says we need look no further than these same teachings. When we uproot what is buried, we purify the mind. When the mind is pure, we are then truly be ready to be in relationship with someone else, be it a partner, a sibling, a friend, a co-worker. “First work within, and then [you'll] be able to do [your] best part out in the world,” Schweig says.
Turning to the yamas and niyamas, Schweig explained that they serve as guidelines for personal behavior and also in relationship to others.
There was also interesting discussion about the application of these teachings in real-world situations. On the question of dealing with so-called “toxic” people in your life, Schweig says to look for the lesson that person is giving you about where you need to strengthen yourself. “Other people are not ‘toxic’; they may just bring up stuff for us that we have not rotatilled yet.” When dealing with difficult situations with others, he said, go back to yoga: turn first to the breath, your center, and from this place, you and the person you are dealing with can mutually enlighten one another.
You could take an entire weekend workshop on the topic of yoga and relationships and still not understand everything there this to know. But this intimate, informative class was a fine place to start.
Gems from this workshop:
Yogini is often mispronounced. It’s supposed to be said like yoga/ni. ”If it rhymes with linguine, or any other kind of pasta, you’re not pronouncing it right!” —Graham Schweig, PhD
The ubiquitous Om is also frequently mispronounced and largely misunderstood. This bija, or seed, mantra is a three-letter word AUM, with three distinct sounds with distinct meanings.
The “A,” pronounced “ah,” refers to the outer physical world around us; “U,” pronounced “oo” until it’s combined with “A” leading to an “oh” sound, refers to the inner spiritual world, and the “M” (which is actually an M with a dot over it that I can’t replicate on this keyboard) is what’s called a “sonic mandala,” starting at the lips and then moving deeply into the back of the throat, and refers to the inner world of the heart.
—Kelle Walsh

This morning I learned how to change my brain, literally, through my yoga practice.
For yoga teacher Sarah Powers, asana is a doorway into understanding our own true nature. In the morning session of her day-long Insight Yoga intensive at the New York Yoga Journal Conference, she spoke of using asana to understand our strengths and our limitations. The journey, though, doesn’t end with asana – it’s where it begins. What your asana looks like means little. How you meet the challenges that arise in your practice is where the true practice begins.
It’s exhilarating being here in New York for the Yoga Journal Conference. As I sit writing from my room on the 35th floor of the Hilton, through the open window I can hear bagpipes from a parade passing below, symphonic music from an outdoor concert, periodic banging from the construction site nearby, and the constant thrum of city traffic, honking taxis and all. It might sound distracting, but it’s not. Maybe two days of yoga have chilled me out to the point where this cacophony doesn’t feel like an intrusion, but rather distinct and rather wonderful elements of the delicious life-force pulsing all around me.












