Yoga, A Love Story
One of the things that yoga teaches me is this lifelong trip with my body is a love story. Some days I struggle, some days practice is effortless, some days I laugh through it, some days discouragement is the loudest voice in the room. Over the last year, though, yoga has been a kind of matchmaker. My body and I are getting along a lot more beautifully than we used to. I can't tell you how grateful for that I am today.
If you're someone who has been a part of this conversation with me, you know I've been in Bangkok, at the beginning of what I thought would be three months of backpacking around South East Asia. Three days in, I received a note from home saying my lovely man has a tumor in his right eye. (His green eye. He has one blue and one green, both beautiful).
Three days, half a world, and another universe later, I'm at home, backpack empty and in a closet, six inches of snow outside, and my lovely man sleeping next to me. We're here for the insane ten days it takes for his treatment to begin in Toronto.
During these ten days, we're grateful for each other, for the people around us, and for all the good things in our lives. Including yoga, which has changed our relationship with ourselves and our bodies. I won't speak for Pat, but it is invaluable, today, for me to have a familiar practice that makes my body a love story, at a time when it might feel very different.
A friend of mine describes his practice as his body singing to him. During my own practice this morning, I'm going to sing to myself and to Pat.
This trip ahead will not be a story of illness. (Cancer will not be the loudest voice in the room.) It's going to be a love story.
I don't have any questions to ask this week. Just love, love, love from me to you.
Thanks for the conversation,
kristin
Dr. Kristin Shepherd is a chiropractor, actor, and speaker (About All Things Wonderful) in North Bay, Ontario. Join her on the web, on Facebook, and on Twitter, and on iTunes.



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Comments
Keeping you and Pat in my heart. I will think of you both tonight when I practice yoga.
It is indeed a love story. Thanks for that focus.
Be well.
Posted by: sizzle | December 22, 2010 8:12 AM
Something my yoga teacher said keeps resonating with me lately. She said that yoga teaches us to have a relationship with our bodies, which often we are only aware of when we are in pain or discomfort. While yoga has certainly relieved a lot of my back and hip pain, I am beginning to notice not just the absence of pain, but the presence of ease, of lightness and space where I didn't ever think to look or feel. I have started to appreciate my body for just being. And isn't that how we feel about anyone or anything we love?
I wish you a wonderful holiday lit up with love.
Posted by: Nenette | December 22, 2010 11:15 AM
Something my yoga teacher said keeps resonating with me lately. She said that yoga teaches us to have a relationship with our bodies
Posted by: Oyun indir | December 22, 2010 11:37 PM
Dear Kristin,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! I think it's well documented that yoga is the perfect tonic for a lousy day. I believe that yoga is also a great way to celebrate happy days like Christmas. Practicing can sharpen our senses and emotions and make that which is already sweeter even more divine. Your 108 sun salutations tradition sounds blissful. Enjoy it!
Posted by: Brian | December 23, 2010 9:53 AM
My heart goes out to you. May you find the peace and strength to work through this challenge.
Posted by: Tracy | December 23, 2010 11:49 AM
My thoughts are with you - may yoga help you and Pat be strong through the times ahead.
Posted by: Tiffany | December 26, 2010 4:42 PM
Sending love y and good thoughts your way too that all will work out well.
Posted by: Stacey L | December 27, 2010 3:38 PM
I am in complete agreement with you on this. Thanks for passing this out here !!
Posted by: Online Yoga Teacher | December 29, 2010 5:23 AM
Warm thoughts to you, Kristin.
Posted by: Melanie | December 29, 2010 8:30 AM
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope writing it brought you some strength and clarity.
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